The Way Things Fall
Right in the middle of a baby shower we were throwing for our friend, amid talk of how great it will be to have babies so close in age, as we poured sangria and Klove carefully drank only gingerale, what was supposed to be our baby started drooling out of her.

















April 5, 2008 at 10:02 pm
Oh my god. I’m sorry, Chicory.
April 5, 2008 at 10:07 pm
Damn.
This brings tears to my eyes. I’m so sorry. So very, very sorry.
April 5, 2008 at 10:23 pm
I too am extremely sorry to hear this. Hugs for all of you.
April 5, 2008 at 11:43 pm
Crap, crap, crap. So sorry, hon.
April 6, 2008 at 12:23 am
My heartaches for you..my thoughts and prayers are with your family.
April 6, 2008 at 1:19 am
i’m so sorry. holding you both in my heart today.
April 6, 2008 at 2:16 am
oh, no. ever so sorry here too - we both are : ((((
April 6, 2008 at 2:20 am
So very sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 4:40 am
I’m so sorry. How very heartbreaking.
April 6, 2008 at 4:58 am
Oh no. So very very sorry.
Love and hugs.
April 6, 2008 at 4:59 am
Oh God.
I am so so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 5:08 am
Love you.
April 6, 2008 at 5:09 am
No no no no. Fuck. I’m so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 5:41 am
I am so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 6:08 am
No. Nonononononono. Oh I am so sorry. How devestating. Fuck.
April 6, 2008 at 6:17 am
Fuck. I’m so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 6:18 am
Fuck, Fuck, Fuck. I am so sorry. I will hold your family in my heart today.
April 6, 2008 at 6:28 am
Oh Chicory, I am so sorry. Know that your family will be in our thoughts.
Love and healing to you and Klove.
April 6, 2008 at 6:29 am
oh oh oh. i am sososo sorry. sending all my love to you today.
April 6, 2008 at 6:44 am
oh fuck. I’m so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 6:53 am
Oh honey. Oh, I am so so sorry. Thinking of you, all three of you.
April 6, 2008 at 7:35 am
oh sweetie
hugs you both tightly!!
April 6, 2008 at 7:58 am
I’m so, so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 8:05 am
Oh, no. I can’t understand why the universe seems so cruel. Thinking of you.
April 6, 2008 at 8:06 am
I am just so fucking sad right now. I am so so so so sorry.
Sending you infinite love and hugs.
xoxoxoxox
April 6, 2008 at 8:10 am
I am so sorry for you both. Much love sent to your family.
April 6, 2008 at 8:10 am
I’m so sorry for you both.
April 6, 2008 at 8:29 am
It’s not fucking fair. Love to you all.
April 6, 2008 at 9:11 am
I am so so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 9:13 am
I am so sorry. Please accept my sympathies.
I am raging at the universe on your behalf again.
April 6, 2008 at 9:23 am
I am so very sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 9:41 am
it’s not fair my love, I’m sorry…..
April 6, 2008 at 9:50 am
Our thoughts are with you both. So sorry….how truly unfair
April 6, 2008 at 10:25 am
Oh God, I’m so sorry. Not at all what I imagined your first free weekend would be like.
Thinking of you - much love.
April 6, 2008 at 11:19 am
i’m so sorry, thinking of you both…
April 6, 2008 at 11:23 am
So very sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 11:52 am
oh. I’m so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 11:53 am
I found your blog via Cali’s blog roll, and am de-lurking to send you my love and sympathy. I’m so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 12:00 pm
I’ve been trying to reply all day, but there is nothing at all that I can say. I so wish we were closer so that we can punch holes in the fucking wall together.
April 6, 2008 at 12:46 pm
I just had a chance to read this and I am so upset and want to throw my blackberry across the room for beaing the bearer of bad news. My thoughts are with you, Klove, Sassa, and everyone.
April 6, 2008 at 1:08 pm
oh no. i am so sorry.

April 6, 2008 at 1:29 pm
i’m so, so sorry. we’re holding you all in the light today.
April 6, 2008 at 1:39 pm
I’m so sorry…
April 6, 2008 at 1:43 pm
Oh, I’m so, so so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 1:55 pm
It’s so sad and unfair. My thoughts have been with you constantly. We love you guys.
April 6, 2008 at 1:58 pm
I am so sorry to hear your news. My thoughts are with you two.
April 6, 2008 at 2:44 pm
I am so sorry. That is so unbelievably unfair.
April 6, 2008 at 3:03 pm
Oh no. I’m so, so sorry. Sending all sorts of love as you hold each other and get through this together. So sorry!
April 6, 2008 at 4:02 pm
Shit. Shit. Shit.
I’m so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 4:08 pm
I’m so sorry. Love love love coming your way.
April 6, 2008 at 4:45 pm
oh damn… I’m so sorry
April 6, 2008 at 5:46 pm
I’m so sorry. I’m thinking of you and Klove and Sassa.
April 6, 2008 at 6:48 pm
What the FUCK? My head is so far up my ass, I’m glad I pulled it out for a second to check on my bloggy friends and this is the first thing I see? Whaaaaaaaat the fuck?
I am completely floored and pissed and spinning a little bit.
What the fuck kind of shit is that?
Sorry for my language. I just have no control over it at this point.
I’m going to go punch a pillow and cry.
April 6, 2008 at 6:50 pm
At a fucking BABY SHOWER?
Aaaaaaaaarrghh!
Stupid stupid universe.
April 6, 2008 at 7:28 pm
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April 6, 2008 at 7:51 pm
oh my god. this is just. no. i’m so so sorry.
April 6, 2008 at 8:28 pm
i am so so sorry…
sending you all so much love and strength…
xo
April 6, 2008 at 8:36 pm
I am so sorry, Chicory and Klove.
April 6, 2008 at 9:32 pm
I’m so sorry to hear that. I was really hopeful for you guys. I too thought I was expecting a November baby. My miscarriage (blighted ovum) was almost 2 weeks ago. I know how you feel. I’m so sad for you.
April 7, 2008 at 5:07 am
I have written and rewritten this post 5x now because all my words seem trivial as mere words cannot convey the sorrow I feel for you and Klove. I hope that you can feel the love and support that I am sending you through this computer. I hope that healing comes full and fast for all of you.
April 7, 2008 at 6:23 am
I am so very sorry. I feel so deeply for you guys.
April 7, 2008 at 6:36 am
I’m so sorry for the loss of your child.
You are in our thoughts.
April 7, 2008 at 6:46 am
i don’t know what to say to add comfort. But just know I am thinking about your family.
April 7, 2008 at 7:15 am
Oh, I am so sorry. Words can’t express. I’m definitely keeping you all in my thoughts today.
April 7, 2008 at 7:56 am
I’m so sorry.
April 7, 2008 at 8:08 am
so sorry for this news. My thoughts are with you.
April 7, 2008 at 8:34 am
Oh, oh, I’m so sorry. This really, totally, completely sucks.
April 7, 2008 at 8:35 am
So sorry that this happened. Horrid and unfair. I wish you healing and grace.
April 7, 2008 at 12:03 pm
I am so sorry. You will all be in my thoughts.
April 7, 2008 at 12:20 pm
I’m so very sorry for your loss!
April 7, 2008 at 12:30 pm
I’m so, so sorry.
April 7, 2008 at 1:01 pm
So sorry.
April 7, 2008 at 5:21 pm
I’m very very sorry. My thoughts are with both of you.
April 7, 2008 at 5:41 pm
I’m so sorry.
April 7, 2008 at 8:12 pm
I’ve been behind on my blog reading for a few days … shit. Repetitive as it may be, I am so, so very sorry. I don’t know why things happen the way they do sometimes.
Sending thoughts of healing, when you are ready to heal.
April 8, 2008 at 4:48 am
sending you much love and support from across the pond. I am so sorry about your loss.
April 8, 2008 at 8:10 am
Ugghh– I am so sorry about this. That’s all I can think of to say– I’m just so sorry.
April 8, 2008 at 10:33 am
I am so very sorry for your loss.
April 8, 2008 at 1:10 pm
so very sorry.
April 8, 2008 at 4:34 pm
I’m so, so sorry.
April 8, 2008 at 5:52 pm
I am so very very sorry.
I’m a quiet reader but have been following your journey.
We’ve been through two m/c ourselves, and the pain, it is unreal. I’m thinking of you and your loves, sending you strength.
Be well.
April 9, 2008 at 7:13 am
I am so incredibly sorry. That is so unfair, you both deserved a break in the storm. Much love from my side.
April 9, 2008 at 7:48 am
I am so incredibly sorry. I know there are no words to convey how my heart aches for you, but know that you and Klove are in my thoughts.
April 9, 2008 at 10:10 am
oh, no. i am so sorry, you guys.
April 9, 2008 at 12:49 pm
Sending some love your way.